The smallest deeds make the biggest
difference in this world. This is particularly true when they are
done in a spirit of giving and humility. I must confess that there
have been many times that I have forgotten this. It seems that every
time I forget, I am reminded of it by something in my life or
practice.
In my three years of residency
training I saw hundreds, possibly thousands of patients. Numerous
times I was awakened in the middle of the night to admit dying
patients or to go rushing up the stairs in a desperate attempt to
stave off death in the Intensive Care Unit. In this whole three
years I received only two thank you notes from patients. Of these
two, one of them stands out clearly in my mind.
It was a busy day in my clinic in my
second year of training. I was working in the office seeing patients
after having been up most of the previous night on call. I was
trying (unsuccessfully) to get done early when my nurse told me that
the front office had added another patient on to my schedule.
I swallowed my frustration as I went
in to see little Alex. He was just a year and a half old. His
mother was a Russian immigrant who spoke poor English. She was on
the brink of tears. She explained, in broken sentences, that Alex
had run high fevers over the last two days and he was not drinking
very much.
I examined him carefully and quickly
discovered the source of the child’s fever. His tonsils were huge
and swollen with white patches. A quick throat swab confirmed the
diagnosis: Strep Throat. After my nurse had given him a shot of
penicillin, I assured his mother that Alex would be better soon.
Two weeks later I received an envelope
at the office. In it was a card from Alex’s mother, thanking me
for curing her son. Reading the broken sentences within, you would
have thought that I had saved Alex from death, not cured him from
Strep Throat. Yet, in his mother’s eyes I had done much.
These are the things that matter most.
It is said that we are called, not to do great things, but to do
small things with great love. This is true.
To take care of small matters is very
important. There are so many more cases of Strep Throat than there
are cases of meningitis to treat and yet, there is a tendency to
believe that those with Strep Throat don’t really matter since
their problem is small in comparison. Nothing could be further from
the truth, for problems that may seem small to others are huge to
those experiencing them – even if they just have Strep Throat.
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