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Wednesday, December 28, 2022

Have a Happy New Day!

 


"We wish you a Merry Christmas!"  My three year old daughter sang to whoever would listen.  "We wish you a Merry Christmas!  We wish you a Merry Christmas!  And a Happy New Day!"

"I think it's a Happy New Year, Elise," I gently corrected her.

"No, Dad," she said.  Elise is too smart to be deceived by anyone -- particularly someone as old as her dad.

I thought about her adjusted words to the classic Christmas song.  Elise isn't really good with lengths of time.  She talks about "to-narrow," I guess referring to tomorrow.  She will mention that something is going to "happen in the future," by which she means that she hopes it happens soon.  Certainly, the concept of a year's length of time is hard to grasp for someone who has only lived three of them on this earth.

New Years have a way of standing out to me -- I can remember a little over 40 of them.  The emphasis is always on the new part -- it is a clean year, unspoiled by my grubby hands and imperfections.  These years are shining, spotless from the factory, and ready to become a beautiful new chapter in my life.

Then, with January 1st, it begins and from the start, things don't exactly go according to plan.  I get frustrated with my children and impatient with personal growth and development.  By January 3rd of 2023, I am ready for 2024 to see if I can do better.

I still have the rest of the year to get through.

So, I like Elise's version better, because I really cannot take a year at a time.  A day is more my speed.

I suppose this is what the prophet Jeremiah was thinking when he wrote, "They (God's mercies) are new every morning, great is thy faithfulness." (Lam. 3:23)

It is better to take things one day at a time -- one minute at a time -- in order to get through a year with 365 new days in it.

It will take all of God's grace and mercy to get us through 2023, one Happy New Day, at a time.

Friday, December 16, 2022

What Day Was Jesus Born?

 


It is only a week (and a weekend) away from Christmas.  It is the day that we celebrate the birth of Jesus.  The question often arises what day Jesus was really born on?  Was He born in December?

In doing a little research, it turns out that the man who chose December 25th as the official birthdate of Jesus was Pope Julius I around AD 350.  We don't really know why -- maybe because the pagan feast of Saturn ended on December 23, a couple of days before.  Maybe it was because he really thought that Jesus was born on that day.  Maybe some Christians had already chosen that date and he was just standardizing it.

The Gospels don't give any details on the subject.  We know where Jesus was born (Bethlehem), we know some visitors He had after His birth (shepherds and magi), but we don't know the exact year or even the month of His birth.

The point is that to early Christians, Christmas wasn't that important.  They didn't celebrate Jesus' birth -- at least not the way we do today.  Their focus wasn't on His birth, but on His death.  Every time they gathered together they remembered His death through a very simple custom of the breaking of bread.

"As often as ye eat this bread and drink this cup ye do shew the Lord's death till He come."  (I Cor. 11:26)

Maybe it is appropriate that we remember light coming into the world at the darkest time of year, just after the Winter Solstice.  Maybe it is good that we give each other gifts, remembering the greatest gift that was given to us.  

All of this feels like rationalization for what we are already doing.

The important thing is not to put Christ in Christmas, but rather to honor Jesus with our lives and to remember His death on our behalf.  This is why He came to earth and lived and taught and died and rose again.

The day isn't important.

The month isn't important.

The year isn't important.

How our hearts are changed because of meeting Jesus and allowing Him to change our lives is more important than all of that.

Tuesday, December 6, 2022

Are There Any Good Church Leaders?

 


Moral Failure.

Moral failure is a euphemism that pastors bring up in statements when they are dealing with a variety of issues, but particularly things related to illicit sexual relationships.  It seems that these sorts of things started coming to light in the 1980s.  Men like Jim Bakker, Jimmy Swaggart, and Ted Haggard were all pastors who had precipitous falls from popularity after their secret lives were exposed.  Since then, there have been scandals involving Hillsong, Ravi Zacharias, Bill Hybels, and many others.

It is easy to question whether any Christian leaders are morally upstanding or maybe if the leaders of the past were simply better at hiding their improprieties.

Moral Failure in religious leaders is not something that is new.  There is a story at the beginning of the book of I Samuel about two brothers, Hophni and Phineas, which has many of the same themes of these modern situations.  It is instructive to look at it and think about what light it sheds on our issues in the church setting.

The Story

Hophni and Phineas were the two sons of the High Priest of Israel, Eli.  We don’t know much about them as individuals.  The author of I Samuel addresses them as a single unit in the first few chapters of the book and does so in decidedly negative fashion.

Eli was the High Priest, but as he aged, his sons began assuming more and more responsibility around the Tent of Meeting.  As they did so, Scripture tells us that they began to sleep with the women who were serving in the Tabernacle. 

More than that, they began taking meat from the sacrifices before it was sacrificed, even though this was against the Law.  If any worshiper protested their behavior, they would use force against him to get their own way.

At the time that all of this was going on at the Tabernacle, there was a war going on between Israel and the Philistines and Israel was losing.  Some Israelite field commander had the bright idea that bringing the Ark of the Covenant to the frontlines would be a way to win a victory. 

Hophni and Phineas accompanied the Ark to the scene of the battle and Samuel records that when it arrived there was a great improvement in morale of the troops.  The troops cheered as though they had already won the battle and who could blame them when the God of the Universe was on their side.  It was at this precise moment that the Philistines decided to attack. 

Instead of victory, the Israelites experienced a stunning defeat.  Both of Eli’s sons were killed in the battle and the Ark of God was captured by the Philistines.

So ends this cautionary history from the beginning of the books of Samuel.  It appears there are different messages for modern audiences found within this story.

We Select the Wrong Men for Leadership

In the case of Hophni and Phineas, they were chosen for leadership simply because they were the sons of Eli.  The title of priest was passed down from Moses’ brother Aaron to his descendants.

Today, most church leaders are selected either based on family connections or because of charisma.  It makes sense that people who are well spoken and good at turning a phrase would become preachers.  Of course, these leaders claim to have an upright character and a close relationship with God, but this seems secondary to other qualities when leaders are selected.

It is helpful to look at the qualities that Paul says an “overseer” in the church should possess.  In Titus 1:5-9 he doesn’t talk about charisma or good public speaking.  Instead, he lists being above reproach, not arrogant, not quick to anger, sober, not money focused, self-controlled, and holy. 

Church leadership is about character and connection with God, not charisma.

Corrupt Leaders Abuse Their Power

It is obvious, but with church leadership comes great responsibility.  In such a position, a person has great opportunities to encourage and strengthen people within the congregation.  On the other hand, there is also a great opportunity to enrich a leader’s pocketbook, enlarge his ego, and give him power over the people within his church.  When this power is abused, it often shows itself in the misuse of church finances or in sexual liaisons within the church.

The end result is severe damage to the message and ministry of that church – it also has far reaching effects on people outside of the church's willingness to accept the Gospel message.

The only antidote to prevent this abuse of power is for leaders to humble themselves and make themselves accountable to others within the church.

Corrupt Leaders See Themselves as Good

Few people see themselves as evil and church leaders are no exception – even when they have done salacious things.  They might admit that they aren’t perfect, they will confess to a few faults, but they believe that the good things that have resulted from their ministry far outweigh any of the negatives that might come from their personal failings.

Rationalization is the tool which humans use to give themselves space to continue bad behavior. 

More than this, the people who surround a corrupt leader often fear that the damage caused to Jesus' kingdom by revelations about that leader’s failures warrant keeping them a secret.

History makes two things obvious.  First, nothing is kept secret forever.  Eventually, all these things will come out.  Second, the fallout from the cover up is often worse than the misdeeds themselves.

Christians do not believe in some cosmic balance, in which good deeds and bad deeds are placed on opposite sides and compared.  Instead, they believe in a constant striving for holiness.

The fact that you can preach a wonderful, encouraging sermon on Sunday in no way balances the fact that you treat the people who work with you poorly the rest of the week.  Sinking yourself into charitable efforts is a good thing, but it doesn’t make up for the devastation if your spouse finds out that you have been unfaithful.

Immoral behavior has no place in leadership – even if that leader is extremely intelligent, bringing new people into the church, or is writing extremely deep books.

Corrupt Leaders Eventually Try to Manipulate God

The story of Hophni and Phineas makes clear that they saw their priestly position as something that they could use to their own advantage.  They got access to women and to better groceries than they might have in a different occupation.

When the army called for the Ark to be brought to the frontlines, Hophni and Phineas didn’t seem to hesitate.  Whereas their father, Eli, had severe anxiety around this mission, everyone else saw God as someone they could manipulate into taking their side against the Philistines.

It is unlikely that the sons of Eli dreamed of defeat.  They never pondered the capture of the Ark, or for that matter their own deaths.  Despite warnings from their father and prophets, they never thought that God would cease to protect His people.

God’s Judgment is Coming

The sons of Eli died unexpectedly in battle.  Many Christian leaders have fallen precipitously when they were at their most popular.

The fact that God is merciful means that he gives humans more opportunity to repent.  In the end, though, the things done in secret will be proclaimed from the housetops.  The results of judgment are devastating.

When judgment finally falls, it is sudden, surprising, and certain.

Leaders Never Fall Alone

Hophni and Phineas died in a battle where 30,000 soldiers of Israel also died.  More than that, the worship of God was totally disrupted by the capture of the Ark of God.

At the end of this story, we read that Phineas’ wife went into labor at the news of her husband’s death and the Ark’s capture.  I Samuel 4:19-22 tells us that she died in childbirth.  Before her death, she named her newborn son “Ichabod,” which means glory departed. 

With the capture of the Ark of the Covenant, the glory had departed from Israel.

Truth to tell, God’s glory had departed some years before.  The religious leaders had not been serving God, but only themselves.  No one had noticed until the Philistines captured this relic of the Israelites’ once holy past.

So it is with any church that is led by someone who does not have a true and deepening relationship with God.  Great will be their fall and woe to any innocent bystanders who find themselves too close when that fall finally comes.

People are good at hiding their faults, but it is paramount that churches make certain that their leaders are full of holiness and are totally focused on the things of God.

Anything less in a church leader is inviting ruin – not only for that man, but also for the church that he is leading.

Friday, December 2, 2022

A Time of Advent

 


"I can't wait till Christmas break!"  Elliot announced grandly at the dinner meal.  

It was two days before Thanksgiving, and he was apparently looking ahead to the wonders of Christmas.  "I imagine you can wait," I said.

Vincent said seriously, "Dad, Elliot apparently doesn't understand the meaning of the word "can't."  It doesn't mean that you don't want to do something.  It means that you are not able to do it."

"True," I said.

"Not only is Elliot able to wait for Christmas break," Vincent continued.  "He is going to have to, unless he invents a time machine."

"I'd say that's a very accurate assessment of the current situation," I said.  "Elliot is commenting on his lack of patience, not his possession of a time machine."

Elliot responded by screwing up his face into a Calvin (of Calvin and Hobbes fame) like grimace, indicating a lack of patience with his family's annoying analysis.

We have entered the time of Advent.  Advent is the four weeks before Christmas.  It is a time of looking forward, but also of looking inward.  Unlike the town of Bethlehem which was totally unprepared for Jesus' arrival, we want our hearts to be ready for the coming of our Savior.

It is a time of learning patience.  It is a time of preparation.  Most of all, it should be a time of hope and excitement.  The silence has been broken and God's living Word was made flesh and dwelled among us and we beheld His glory as of the glory of the only begotten of the Father.

I pray that we might learn these things and still our hearts.

There is a lot of shopping.  There are many meals and gatherings to attend.  There are Christmas cards to get and mail off (hopefully everyone has enough stamps).

In the midst of this, take a few moments to wait patiently on the coming of Jesus.

Advent shouldn't be something we simply endure.  It should turn our hearts upward and help them to learn patience and even Joy for the amazing gift we have been given.