I settled myself into the seat of my truck and backed out of
my parking space. Only fifteen minutes
to home. I had a lot of things to do – I
needed to check on the garden, weed a bit and even do some writing.
As I merged onto State Route 29, I noticed that my truck had
a CD player. Now, I must confess, I own
CDs, but I seldom listen to them as I have moved onto using streaming
services.
I contemplated idly how hard it would be to take the CD
player out and install a player capable of playing the original discs – long play, vinyl records – in its place. I imagined it
would be difficult and not terribly useful.
I would have to tell anyone riding with me, “Sorry, you can’t sit shot gun – that’s where my record
collection is!”
I pushed the eject button on the CD player and out popped a
disc – it was the first CD of the Pimsleur Language Thai course. I had owned the truck for a full four years
and had never realized that the first sixty-two minutes of my journey to fluent,
conversational Thai language had rested in my CD player the whole time.
In the few days since I discovered this amazing compact
disc, I have proceeded no further in my attempts to communicate with people
from Thailand. I suppose this is mainly
because one CD doesn’t feel like much of a start – it is like trying to cross
the Mississippi River with a single stepping stone. Smart as I am, I think I’d need at least
three or four CDs before I attempted a conversation with a Thai speaker.
It does strike me how we can live with something – someone for
years and never really know them. I spend
a lot of time in my truck, but I had never known about this CD’s presence in my
truck.
The Apostle Paul told the Philippians, “Don’t look out only
for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too.” (Philippians 2:4)
Whether it is a conversation or a relationship, things will
go so much better when we begin to focus on the other person, rather than
simply on ourselves and our responses to the person we are with. Love is about listening and observing how the
one we love is doing.
It may take years to discover things like the presence of a
Thai language CD in the truck you drive every day, but it shouldn’t be for lack
of trying.

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